October 17
Choosing Between Party InvitationsLast year around Christmas I had a stressful time making decisions. It seemed like each day when I went outside to collect my mail I received more party invitations requesting the presence of my family at holiday events. At first I found it flattering that my family and I were being thought about by our friends and family and that they all desired our company during the holiday season. It wasn’t long, however, before the flattery turned into frustration as the party invitations kept arriving and as our calendar began to fill up with event after event.
It got to the point where our family had to sit down with the party invitations and do something very important: choose. There was no way that we could accept all of the party invitations and remain sane through the month of December. We had to begin declining party invitations and narrowing our schedule down to include only the events we really wished to attend. It might sound simple, but when you sit down to choose between attending your grandmother’s yearly holiday brunch or your best friend’s annual reunion party for all of your college friends, choosing is not so easy.
Our family quickly came up with a way to sift through the small mountain of party invitations and choose the ones we wished to attend. The first and most important way that we narrowed our list was by thinking about the relationships we had with the people throwing each party. We made the decision to separate the party invitations we had received into piles based on our closeness to the hosts of the parties. This made it easy to see where we could decline a few party invitations simply by choosing close family and friends over people we didn’t know so well. A party hosted by a parent or sibling took precedence over party invitations we received from a co-worker or former neighbor.
We also decided to narrow down party invitations by only allowing ourselves to schedule a certain number of events each week. We limited our family to accepting party invitations to one party during each week and one party each weekend during the entire month. This way we were not so busy with parties that we were unable to continue doing other important things.
If you find yourself receiving too many party invitaions this holiday season, or at any point throughout the year, look for ways to narrow it down and only accept party invitations to events being held by people you love the most.

March 11
An ATV Trail DateThe ATV trail is a place for dirt, mud, gravel and romance?
Todays ladies are hardly the proper models of the Victorian Era; in fact, there are plenty of gals out there just itching to ride their four-wheelers with as much gusto as their male counterparts. So if youre a dude whos scratching his head for the perfect place to woo your next girlfriend, why not choose an ATV trail excursion?
Of course, in order to ensure that your adventure is on the amorous side, youll need to incorporate a little bit of heartfelt and sincere sweetness into the occasion. Start off by sending your special friend an invite for an ATV cruise to watch the sunset from a trail nearby. The invitation should be handwritten and sent via the mail, or, if youre cyber-savvy, emailed.
Plan your date as you would any other. First, map out the perfect ATV trail based on your companions four-wheeling level. If shes just starting out (or hasnt ridden before), choose a smooth path that will leave her breathless and smiling, but definitely not terrified. On the other hand, if shes a veteran ATV operator, you can up the ante by picking out a more technically difficult trail filled with twists and turns. Regardless, make certain you know the mileage so youre at the appropriate spot come nightfall (a sunset always makes a lovely date backdrop.)
Because this is a date, youll want to look your best. Though ATV riding can be a dirty proposition, a suit and tie is wildly inappropriate; however, that doesnt mean you have to show up looking like a slob. At least comb your hair and trim your fingernails. Remember to brush your teeth, too, as most people like fresh breath.
When you pick up or meet your sweet thing, show her how much you care by holding up a bag packed with plenty of goodies for the two of you to enjoy during your adventure. These could include some non-alcoholic beverages, yummy snacks, a radio or CD player for music options and a camera so you can capture your moments together.
During the ride, youll no doubt have a plethora of opportunities to wow your significant other by pointing out exceptional scenery or by picking her a handful of wildflowers. Since this is a date, dont be in a hurry to get from point A to point B; allow yourselves to linger when feasible. And, of course, if the mood strikes, stealing kisses is always appropriate if mutually desired.
Should something go wrong along the way, keep yourself calm, cool and collected. Remember, this ATV trail date is about the journey, not about the destination and shell recall fondly how you handled an unexpected situation if you keep a level head.
Though an ATV trail date of this sort isnt guaranteed to produce a relationship that will last the test of time, its still likely to be a terrific experience for you both. You just have to put a little planning into the excursion and be open to possibilities.




